{"id":83476,"date":"2023-09-21T09:39:40","date_gmt":"2023-09-21T09:39:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mylifestylemax.com\/?p=83476"},"modified":"2023-09-21T09:39:40","modified_gmt":"2023-09-21T09:39:40","slug":"my-mom-altered-my-wedding-dress-without-consent-as-it-showed-too-much-cleavage-im-furious-she-wants-me-to-cover-up-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylifestylemax.com\/fashion\/my-mom-altered-my-wedding-dress-without-consent-as-it-showed-too-much-cleavage-im-furious-she-wants-me-to-cover-up-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My mom altered my wedding dress without consent as it 'showed too much cleavage,\u2019 I\u2019m furious she wants me to cover up | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

A BRIDE-TO-BE has been left seething after her mom altered her wedding dress without consent.<\/p>\n

The interfering matriarch figured it was reasonable because the gown "showed too much cleavage."<\/p>\n

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But this bride was furious that her mom wanted her to cover up.<\/p>\n

It was her special day and she should be the one calling the shots, not mom.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, feeling beleaguered, she did wonder if she over-reacted.<\/p>\n

In an attempt to gain some clarity and reassurance, she took her dress drama to the online forum Reddit.<\/p>\n

There was a huge number of responses to her post, all wholly sympathetic to her plight.<\/p>\n

One comment was typical of many others when they described her mom's behavior: "This is narcissism on another level."<\/p>\n

For the benefit of Redditors, she laid out the sorry situation.<\/p>\n

"My mom changed my wedding dress without my consent. I wish I were joking. <\/p>\n

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"[She] altered my wedding dress in a way I explicitly asked her not to."<\/p>\n

This mom felt there was not enough coverage: "She told me I showed too much cleavage and that I needed to cover up."<\/p>\n

But the bride was happy with the style: "I said I thought it was fine and that I did not want to change the dress multiple times and even texted her about it."<\/p>\n

Her appeals and entreaties, however, fell on stony ground. <\/p>\n

"Mom just went ahead anyway and made the adjustments.<\/p>\n

"She betrayed my trust in a big way," she said.<\/p>\n

Her mother's response? "She told me I was ungrateful for the work her and my father put in."<\/p>\n

Commenters rounded on her mom in their thousands.<\/p>\n

Her conduct was, they said in an almost universal response, way out of order.<\/p>\n

There was also plenty of reassurance for the bride but also some advice.<\/p>\n

"You need to enforce boundaries, including not giving your mother opportunities to screw you over," said one person.<\/p>\n

Another had some sobering words for her: "Abuse can be a hard word to hear, but that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on here. In my experience, therapy is needed."<\/p>\n

This is a life-long pattern according to this person: "Honestly I think you\u2019re under-reacting. <\/p>\n

"Your 'normal meter' is probably broken by dealing with your mom\u2019s behavior your whole life. Normal moms don\u2019t do this."<\/p>\n

"She altered your dress without your approval. It doesn't matter how it looks. It's not healthy. It's toxic," opined this Redditor.<\/p>\n

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But this person had a simple solution.<\/p>\n

"Forget the wedding. Elope to Hawaii so you can have a nice day and not have to deal with her."<\/p>\n


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