{"id":83232,"date":"2023-09-13T03:41:31","date_gmt":"2023-09-13T03:41:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mylifestylemax.com\/?p=83232"},"modified":"2023-09-13T03:41:31","modified_gmt":"2023-09-13T03:41:31","slug":"i-kicked-my-husband-out-of-our-bed-after-he-refused-to-clean-up-vomit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mylifestylemax.com\/lifestyle\/i-kicked-my-husband-out-of-our-bed-after-he-refused-to-clean-up-vomit\/","title":{"rendered":"I kicked my husband out of our bed after he refused to clean up vomit"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>I kicked my husband out of our bed because he refused to clean up his own vomit after throwing up in the sink following a drunken BBQ<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Alison Logann, from the US, took to Reddit to reveal the details of the marital tiff<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>She said her husband welcomed friends for a gettogether that got out of hand<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>He got drunk and refused to\u00a0<\/strong><span>clean up his own vomit before she banished him<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A woman has revealed that she banished her husband to sleep in the spare room because he refused to clean up his own vomit following a drunken BBQ.<\/p>\n<p>US-based Alison Logann took to popular Reddit sub-thread\u00a0Am I The A**hole to reveal the details of the marital tiff.<\/p>\n<p>She said that she had cleaned the house ahead of her husband welcoming friends for a mid-week gettogether &#8211; but it appears things soon got out of hand.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Alison desperately asked: &#8216;AITA for making my husband sleep in the guest room after he refused to clean up his own vomit??&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/21\/75351433-12504879-image-a-127_1694550854767.jpg\" height=\"376\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>US-based Alison Logann took to popular Reddit sub-thread Am I The A**hole to reveal the details of the marital tiff\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296723-12504879-She_said_that_she_had_cleaned_the_house_ahead_of_her_husband_wel-a-1_1694552716561.jpg\" height=\"428\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>She said that she had cleaned the house ahead of her husband welcoming friends for a mid-week gettogether &#8211; but it appears things got out of hand (stock image)<\/p>\n<p>In the post, which has since been deleted, Alison wrote: &#8216;Last night my husband had some work friends over for a BBQ and drinks.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I worked today and I did all the prep work\/cooking and cleaning so him and his friends could enjoy their time together.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;He ended up getting pretty drunk and threw up in our bathroom sink, left it and refused to clean it up when I asked him to.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>She explained that his refusals included &#8216;I don&#8217;t know what to do to clean it up&#8217; and &#8216;I don&#8217;t have time to clean it because I have to work early.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Adding context to the situation, she elaborated: &#8216;Little background on our situation, he works full time (pays 60 per cent of bills) and I work part time (40 per cent of bills). Therefore, I deal with all the domestic house duties.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I love my role in our home and I truly am happy to do it. However, it just feels like straight up disrespect.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I was super upset after him feeding me excuse of why he can&#8217;t clean up his own vomit, he smelt horribly of liquor and was starting to raise his voice at me when he was explaining he couldn&#8217;t clean it because he &#8220;had to go to work to pay for all the things we want.&#8221;&#8216;<\/p>\n<p>Alison continued:\u00a0&#8216;To be clear, we have our own individual bank accounts and he doesn&#8217;t pay for any of my personal bills or recreational purchases.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296739-12504879-image-a-2_1694552716568.jpg\" height=\"90\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296713-12504879-image-a-6_1694552716657.jpg\" height=\"101\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296715-12504879-image-a-3_1694552716569.jpg\" height=\"179\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296717-12504879-image-a-4_1694552716581.jpg\" height=\"121\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296729-12504879-image-a-5_1694552716654.jpg\" height=\"102\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296731-12504879-Other_users_were_quick_to_flood_the_post_with_comments_and_they_-a-7_1694552716673.jpg\" height=\"99\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Other users were quick to flood the post with comments &#8211; and they did not hold back as the majority agreed that she was &#8216;Not The A**Hole&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;After his exudes of why not to clean it up, I didn&#8217;t engage or continue with the argument because when you&#8217;re sober, there&#8217;s no reasoning with a drunk person so I had asked him to sleep in the spare room.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Turning to other users on the discussion forum for advice, she wrote: &#8216;Now I just feel guilty, so tell it to me straight, am I the a**hole in the situation?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Elsewhere, Alison clarified that her husband works 70 hours per week whereas she works 24 hours a week as a nurse.<\/p>\n<h2><span>Poll<\/span><\/h2>\n<p> Who do YOU think was in the wrong? <\/p>\n<p> Who do YOU think was in the wrong? <\/p>\n<p>Now share your opinion<\/p>\n<p>Despite her shorter hours she believes &#8216;those six hour shifts are intense and emotionally taxing,&#8217; but still does the household chores on her work days so she can fully enjoy her four days off.<\/p>\n<p>When replying to Reddit comments Alison wrote that her husband &#8216;makes almost double&#8217; her &#8216;monthly salary in one week.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>But, either way, other users were quick to flood the post with comments &#8211; and they did not hold back as the majority agreed that she was &#8216;Not The A**Hole.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>One person wrote: &#8216;Bruh even in a frat house people have to clean up their own puke. Your husband treats you with less respect than I treat my pledges.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;NTA. His throw-up, his cleanup. What he&#8217;s doing is emotional abuse. Simple as that,&#8217; another commented.<\/p>\n<p>A third chimed in:\u00a0&#8216;&#8221;I don&#8217;t know how to clean it up&#8230;&#8221; &#8216;Bulls**t, this is weaponized incompetence if he continues this sober. Anything short of cleaning the hell out of it while apologizing profusely once he sobers up is a big problem. NTA.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296727-12504879-image-a-12_1694552716741.jpg\" height=\"131\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296733-12504879-image-a-13_1694552716745.jpg\" height=\"129\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296735-12504879-image-a-8_1694552716728.jpg\" height=\"136\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296737-12504879-image-a-9_1694552716737.jpg\" height=\"94\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296743-12504879-image-a-11_1694552716739.jpg\" height=\"177\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296749-12504879-image-a-10_1694552716738.jpg\" height=\"97\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/09\/12\/22\/75296747-12504879-Other_Reddit_users_told_Alison_that_her_husband_was_using_weapon-a-14_1694552716816.jpg\" height=\"97\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Other Reddit users told Alison that her husband was using &#8216;weaponized incompetence&#8217; to attempt to get out of the situation of cleaning his vomit after himself\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Following the support, Alison claimed to have had a revelation about her surplus of house chores thanks to Reddit users.<\/p>\n<p>She responded: &#8216;Lots of these comments were really constructive on the division of paying bills and its something I really considered today and will be changing.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>After the dispute, the couple stated to &#8216;communicate via text&#8217; while Alison was at work.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She asked to discuss the previous night, to which he replied: &#8216;I don&#8217;t remember what I said but I can tell you&#8217;re mad about something.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Alison did not respond to her husband&#8217;s text but explained that she was &#8216;happy&#8217; when she &#8216;came home from work and the sink was clean.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12504879\/Woman-banishes-drunk-husband-spare-room-refused-clean-vomit.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I kicked my husband out of our bed because he refused to clean up his own vomit after throwing up<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":83231,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - 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