DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife keeps criticising my performance in bed and it’s really getting me down.
I’m 46 and she is 42.
For more advice from Dear Deidre
No issue is too small, too large or too embarrassing. Read our personal replies here.
- Dear Deidre on Mental Health
- Dear Deidre on Identity
- Dear Deidre on Debt and Money
- Dear Deidre on Work
- Dear Deidre on Health and Wellbeing
- Dear Deidre on Addiction
I’m not happy with our sex life, either. She only likes to have sex in the doggy position, but I prefer a bit of variety.
Lately, I can’t seem to orgasm. We’ll keep going for ages, but I never ejaculate.
However, I have no problem when I masturbate.
She says it’s my fault for masturbating too much and she thinks I don’t find her attractive any more. That’s not true.
Get in touch with Deidre
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
Send an email to [email protected]
You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.
Our sex life is becoming a big issue, and it’s making us both miserable.
What can we do to improve things?
DEIDRE SAYS: When sex becomes an issue, it can create a vicious circle.
The more anxious you become, the more likely problems are to occur.
Take intercourse off the menu for a while and concentrate on kissing, cuddling and foreplay.
Some relationship counselling could help. See tavistockrelationships.org, 020 7380 1960.
My support pack on Masturbation should also be useful.
NEXT IN TODAY'S DEAR DEIDRE My family threw me out when I told them I'm a transsexual woman
READ DEIDRE'S PHOTO CASEBOOK Olivia worries her friends won’t approve of her relationship with Josh
GET IN TOUCH How the page works and how to contact us
Source: Read Full Article