My husband was admiring women in tiny bikinis while we were at the beach

DEAR DEIDRE: I HATE it when my husband ogles other women.

We were having a day at the beach recently and he was openly admiring endless women in tiny skimpy bikinis.


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I’ve told him I find it humiliating but he dismisses me, saying all guys do it and it means nothing.

He says it’s harmless fun, but it isn’t because it hurts me deep inside and knocks my confidence.

I’m 52 and my husband’s 53. Why does he need to act like a dirty old man when he says it is me that he wants?

I hate thinking of him as some sleaze bag but that’s how he is making me see him.

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DEIDRE SAYS: We all like to look at attractive people but doing it so brazenly in front of your partner is disrespectful – especially if they have asked you not to.

How would he like it if you were eyeing up other men? While it’s unrealistic to expect him to stop 100 per cent of the time, you can insist he doesn’t lust after other women when he’s with you.

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