My husband sent a rude photo to my sister but says it was an accident

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband sent me a picture of his penis … then he “accidentally” sent it to my younger sister too.

I forgave him because he has ADHD, which means he doesn’t always behave appropriately in social situations.


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We’re both 30 and have been together for a decade, so I’m used to his awkward mistakes.

But now my sister, who is 25, has told me he has also been making suggestive remarks to her. She’s had enough of him and is suggesting I should think about divorce.

I confronted my husband and he swore on our five-year-old daughter’s life that he was just joking with her.

He thinks she’s had a sense of humour bypass. I love him but I’m getting tired of the issues he creates.

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s not OK that your husband made your sister feel uncomfortable. But you know he sometimes struggles to say the right thing and you love him in spite of his problems.

Talk to him openly and honestly about your feelings and ask him to try to hold back rather than risk causing offence. Contact ADHD UK for support (adhd.co.uk).

If you’re feeling uncertain about your relationship, do think about having some couples’ counselling. My support pack, How Counselling Can Help, will explain more about this valuable service.

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