I've fallen for an older woman – but I'm a 23-year-old virgin

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M a 23-year-old virgin who has never been in a relationship.

Now I’ve fallen for an older woman and I’m trying to build up the courage to ask her out.

Until I met this 40-year-old woman at work, I never really fancied anyone, although I’ve had plenty of smaller crushes in my life.


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She’s funny and beautiful, and has always been very nice to me.

I don’t think she knows how I feel and she probably won’t feel the same, but I can’t stop thinking about her.

Should I tell her I like her and ask her out for a drink? Or is it better to stay quiet?

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s brave of you to want to ask her out but be aware that she might be married or in a relationship.

There’s no harm in getting to know her better so you can find out more about her, but try not to put all your hopes into something happening with her.

You’re at different life stages and she is probably much more experienced.

There is bound to be someone else out there for you. My support pack, Learning About Relationships, could be helpful.

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