I want to have proper sex with my boyfriend but he's just not interested

I am 35 and he is 36. He shouldn’t be past wanting to have a good sex life at that age. He says he loves me but it is difficult to feel he means it when all we do is have foreplay. Even that is only about once a week.

I have tried talking to him about it but he just looks miserable and I have to change the subject and find ways of cheering him up.

I wonder if your e-leaflet How To Have Great Sex would help?

DEIDRE SAYS: If by “proper sex” you mean intercourse, your boyfriend might well have worries about getting or keeping an erection.

Tell him you have to talk honestly about what the problem is because that’s the way to sort it.

My e-leaflet Your Man Losing His Erection? explains more.

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