I think about another man every time I have sex with my partner | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK about another man every time I have sex with my boyfriend and can’t get him out of my head.

My partner and I split up for a few months.

During that time I got together with a guy from work. He is 36.

We slept with each other, but nothing materialised.

In the meantime, I’ve worked things out with my partner and we’re back together.

I’m a man of 33 and my partner’s 35. We’ve been together for six years.

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I’ve tried so hard not to speak to this other guy and managed for two weeks, but then I couldn’t resist.

I feel like a terrible person.

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