DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH I totally trust my boyfriend, I feel uneasy about him going for a weekend away with our mates. I can’t go because of work.
I’m a gay man of 36, my boyfriend is 37 and we have been together for two years.
The issue is I don’t trust one of my friends.
He doesn’t respect other relationships and I’m worried that after a few drinks my friend’s hands will start wandering all over my boyfriend.
Even the thought of it is stressing me out. I haven’t said anything to my boyfriend as I don’t want to come across as insecure.
His last boyfriend drove him mad because he was always accusing him of being unfaithful.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It isn’t insecure to talk to your boyfriend about genuine concerns. Your boyfriend will no doubt be aware of your friend’s flirty nature.
You aren’t accusing your boyfriend of anything, just discussing your friend.
Together you can come up with strategies and I hope he can put your mind at ease.
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