Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Jen Brogan, a 25-year-old journalism master’s student.
Jen is straight, and has been in a relationship with her boyfriend since August 2022. She says that she’s currently having ‘the best sex of [her] life.’
‘I wouldn’t describe myself to be vanilla, nor my partner,’ says Jen. ‘We’re a bit kinkier than most.’
In particular, she loves how natural their sex life is: ‘I really enjoy the fact that I never usually know when we’ll next get it on – it’s really spontaneous and it changes every time.
‘It’s never planned and that really helps keep it exciting.
‘When I feel like sex has become routine-like or expected, it puts me off. I have a high sex drive, so it’s important my partner matches that.’
Without any further ado, here’s how Jen got on this week…
Warning: The following is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.
After a nice, long weekend of not being able to get enough of each other, today has been a struggle. I didn’t want to get up this morning, and judging by the late text from my boyfriend, neither did he. So, by 9pm, after a day at work, it was safe to say I was excited for him to get back.
When he walked through the door he gave me a squeeze and a kiss. We chatted while he ate dinner and then we headed upstairs.
After catching up and sticking on a series we’ve been devouring, he turned to me in bed and gave me one of those kisses that lasts dangerously too long and is difficult to resist.
So, we ignored the ‘early night’ we had been saying we needed, and started touching and teasing each other until he pulled me in closer to him. Underwear somewhere lost under the duvet, my nails dug into his shoulder and he walked me while I tried not to wake the house up – the early night turned into a late one.
By 1am, we snuggled up, his fingers tickling down my back until I got goosebumps all over my body, and we fell asleep.
Today was definitely one of those days where I was still turned on from the night before. It was my day off, but I was up early because my boyfriend had to head to work. He’s not great with mornings and so those extra ten minutes in bed after the alarm goes off get spent with him cuddled up to me, while I poked his nose so he didn’t fall back to sleep.
Then followed his morning rush of getting up, stripping down and getting changed for work. I just watched and smiled when he caught me checking him out. After he heads out, I can’t get on with my day because of last night’s antics. I reach for my vibrator and sort myself out before getting on with my to-do.
I wasn’t sure whether he’d make it awake past 11pm tonight because of how tired he was. I cuddled up to him in, stuck my leg over his and his hand touched my back, moving lower until he was grabbing me from behind.
He kissed me and, from what I could tell, he was suddenly very much awake. I moved him onto his back and kissed him, going down on him soon after, looking up at him every now and then. Seeing how much he enjoys it turns me on even more.
Midway through, I slowed it down, grinding in circular motions onto him because I knew it would drive him crazy. He gave me that look and his hand held my jaw as he sent me shaking.
I rolled over to face him, bodies entwined next to each other and laid on his chest. He planted a kiss on my head and we stayed there for a few minutes before cleaning ourselves up and heading to bed on our second not-so-early-night in a row.
I didn’t even hear him wake up today. I stayed asleep until he sat on the side of the bed next to me and gave me a hug and kiss for a minute or two. That felt nice but I knew he was leaving for work and I wouldn’t be seeing him again until Friday night.
We both headed downstairs and I made my coffee, while he brushed his teeth. We have that one final hug and kiss, soaking it all up. and then he left for work. I always feel a bit sad when he leaves because I hate sleeping in bed alone after a couple of days of him being there every night. So, no morning fun for me today. I got ready for work and headed off.
Today ended up being one of those days where there’s a never-ending list of things to do and no matter how much of it I got done, it just seemed to get bigger. At one point, I just thought of how good it would be to just be able to go home and hold him for a minute and feel a bit of relief. Not a fun Wednesday.
It’s another busy day work-wise and I’m starting to feel burnt out. I do alright without seeing my boyfriend every day – it doesn’t feel like a struggle. But it would be a lie to say that I didn’t crave his presence when I am feeling as tired and mentally drained as I do today.
He sent me a text saying: ‘One more day and I’ll be all yours tomorrow,’ and I carried on with my workload, trying to make the clock go quicker.
Despite coming home thinking I was probably going to head off pretty early, things on text got a bit frisky by the evening. I took some photos to send to him to wind him up a bit more whilst we sexted. Teasing him turns me on so much, so it’s fun for me to do. We both finished and sleepily messaged a bit more before we headed off to sleep.
I was off today and wanted to get a load of life admin done – washing, tidying and organising myself so I can enjoy the weekend. My boyfriend gets to mine at 10pm. Fridays are a day when he tends to finish work later than usual and he always goes to the gym after. He ate his food after squeezing me tight when he came in and then we headed upstairs.
I’d set the tv up in my room so we could have a little movie night – I don’t have a TV in my room so I borrowed it from my sister. After trying to figure out how to screenplay our phone to the tv, we finally managed to watch some of our favourite shows and snuggle up.
There was no doubt after the other evening that we would end up all over each other doing the things we said to each other the night before. In the early hours of the morning we finally said goodnight.
No alarm to wake us up, but I woke up to him moving over in bed. He spooned me from behind and kissed on my shoulder. I wiggled into him, stealing all his warmth and then felt him wiggle back against me. His lips were soon on my neck and he started touching me where I like it. Best morning ever.
I made us some coffee and we laid in bed chatting and showing each other things we’ve seen online.
One thing I really enjoy about my boyfriend is how much he loves cooking. He doesn’t get the time to do it so much in the week, so Saturdays are all his and tonight we had burgers. I sit on the breakfast bar whilst he cooks all the food, coming over to give me a kiss and a hug every now and then in intervals. Dinner was a hit but I did have to warn him I’d need at least an hour before we did anything because I was so full up.
It was a rarity that the house was free and we took full advantage. Don’t get me wrong, I love having sex with him, but when we don’t have to worry about being too loud, it just hits differently. It was heated and exciting. I came more than once and he knew exactly what he was doing.
We washed and showered and I laid burrowed in his neck. He started heavy breathing and I started to dose off myself. I woke up and said I’d turn the lamp off, before rolling back over and meeting his lips as they kissed me hard again. He pulled me in and I felt how hard he is and that was it. After we finished, we were sleepy, as we cuddled in bed for a few minutes then eventually drifted off to sleep.
He was spending the day with his mum, so I woke him up early so he could get going. But instead, he pulled me in and held me for a few more minutes. As he started to wake up, he began kissing me everywhere until I was so sensitive to every touch. He asked me if anyone was home and I smiled and shook my head. I got on top until he was close, but he rolled me over and made me finish first before he did.
After laying with eachother wishing we could have a lazy Sunday together, we both got up, got cleaned and dressed. I made a coffee and drank it in the living room while he finished getting himself ready. I held him tight before he headed off.
I always feel bummed out when I know I can’t see him for a couple of days, so I took the day slowly and hung out with my sister. I’m already excited to see him again soon.
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