I’m a professional matchmaker – two things you’re doing wrong on dating apps and how to up your game to find a partner

A DATING expert and matchmaker with more than 20 years of experience is calling out those who complain about online dating. 

In a moment of tough love, she said if you’re having a negative experience with dating apps or websites, you need to take a look at yourself. 


“If you are using the dating apps or dating sites and you come back to me and you say there are no good people on there or they’re all scammers or they’re all cheaters, or whatever it is, here’s the truth,” relationship expert and matchmaker Gina Hendrix said in a video shared to her popular TikTok page.

“If you’re having negative experiences on the dating apps, it is either you’re profile sucks, it’s average, it’s not elevated to the level where you’re going to attract the best people,” she explained.

“And, or, it’s your choices. 

“It’s who you’re choosing as well.” 

She concluded: “So don’t blame the dating apps and take responsibility because when you take responsibility for what you’re doing, this is when you can change the results.”

Gina’s followers supported her suggestions, as they filled her comment section with praise and stories of their own dating experiences. 

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“I have a funny bio and men love it since it’s different,” one person wrote.

“Good photos that tell a story and a funny bio is the way to stand out.”

“Ugh too many to weed out!” another viewer exclaimed, noting that she does not like dating apps.

“So I’m too picky!! I agree!!”

And in response to others who were concerned about the overwhelming amount of unappealing people to go through, Gina said: “Can’t focus on lack—have to focus on finding the needles in the haystack.”

Perhaps, finding the needle in the haystack takes dating multiple people at once, which is exactly what another dating expert encourages her clients to do.

She recommends following one mantra: “If you’re not in a committed relationship, why are you committing to someone who hasn’t committed to you?”

That has certainly helped one woman who revealed she received a care package from two different guys she went on just one date with after she tested positive for Covid-19.

Her advice?

“Cast a wide net and have high standards and just be transparent.”


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