DEAR DEIDRE: My husband\u2019s frequent work trips abroad are making me paranoid.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s away so often that I\u2019m sure he must be cheating.<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been married for 15 years. I\u2019m 40, he\u2019s 43 and we have two teenage kids.<\/p>\n
He works for a software company with offices abroad, and he regularly has to visit them for a week at a time.<\/p>\n
I get left at home with the children and the house to run, while he\u2019s staying in hotels and going out for posh dinners.<\/p>\n
I never get time to myself. This year, he\u2019s been away four times, on each occasion with the same colleague. <\/p>\n
I met her at last year\u2019s Christmas do. She\u2019s very attractive and ten years younger than me.<\/p>\n
He denies he fancies her, but I can\u2019t help imagining what they get up to when he\u2019s in a hotel room.<\/p>\n
I hate it when he\u2019s away but he says he has no choice and I should be pleased he has a good job.<\/p>\n
Am I being unreasonable?<\/p>\n
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